@cindylb, would you like me to move the message from the other related thread to this one, so your story is in one place?

I second @becsbuddy's suggestion of looking into the services that your local hospice may offer. They are not all for the end of life stage. See @debbraw's comment about hospice here: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/alzheimers-1/?pg=3#comment-309021

Let me know whether you'd like the other thread moved.