When she is gone, you find someone else to take shopping, and needs someone to help them. That's what I did. After my mom passed away I did hospice volunteer work. And then my husband had AML and went through a transplant. it was eight years ago we started with treatment. And he his always having issues. Had prostrate cancer three years ago. We spend a lot of time at home. And if something happens to him before I go, I have already decided I will go back to volunteering. I love spending time with older people. They all have a story.