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Caregiving: I’m frustrated and exhausted.

Caregivers | Last Active: Mar 27, 2022 | Replies (223)

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@kimspr3 Kim, start writing down your thoughts, on a computer if you have one, or by hand. Or speak and record your thoughts. I know from experience that saying what you are feeling out loud, let's another part of your brain listen. I like to longhand write, and later will look at how I wrote, not just what. Pretty enlightening, let me tell you! Some people just cannot get a clue how to treat a loved one in chronic pain. Perhaps have a friend explain it to him, instead of you. We care here.
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Hi Ginger, I see a Psychologist she had a session with my husband. He's Passive Aggressive. I found a good site on line and it explained P.A. so well. He read it, agreed and that's the end of that. Today the remote to my pain pump is not working properly I told him he walked away. Yet he did a lot of work around our home. I Thanked him. My Psy. as you suggested told me to keep a ledger. I have been doing that on and off. Coloring is a big help. I appreciate your protection. You will never know, I can't explain it. Thank You I hope you are comfortable today!