I love the harp ring tone idea @vickys Thanks! What a nice idea! I basically keep my phone on vibrate all the time, but have two ring tones for our adult children. Our son lives near Disney in Florida so I have 'When you wish upon a star' for his family and our daughter lives in Chicago so I use 'My kind of town'. Now if you don't mind me copying you, I think I'll change my default ring to something soothing like you harp idea!