@howardjames Hi Noreen. I remember how I felt the day my dad told me he didn't want to live anymore. He was disabled and bed ridden, and he was ready to go. It was difficult for me to hear that, but I had to accept his decision. I cried a lot more during those difficult days before he passed. After, I was busy with the arrangements and had already done most of my grieving and it made that easier for me to be able to see all the relatives and help them with their grief. It really is a beautiful thing to be able to give your support and care to a person who is dying, and to make them as comfortable as possible. After my dad died, I read the love letters he had written to my mom years ago before they were married and that gave me a lot of comfort.

Noreen, I am sorry. We are praying for you and your husband. It’s hard to see the changes. It’s stocking to see someone so strong change. My husband tries to make me laugh. He doesn’t want me to worry. He to has had Physical therapy. He doesn’t think it has been working. So he quit going. He also works out a lot. Thanks for your response.