@nhawse Boy, this sounds tough. Not knowing what happened, what caused it, and what will happen. Please take care of yourself so you can take care of him! Has anyone suggested physical therapy? They can do wonders. And occupational therapy. They can teach him how to do most everything and maybe give him some independence. They can also suggest ways to make the home safer and easier to get around. Ask your doctor for a referral and let us know how things are going. Becky