I'm in the same situation with my 73 year old husband. We both cried for days after diagnosis of Alz and continue to struggle after nearly 9 mos. I see his daily decline and it breaks my heart. I've gone to Alz and other support groups and that's helped./. My 80 year old radiologist brother was diagnosed with LBD at same time!! I look for and use all the support I can get. This is not what I ever dreamt our future would hold. I started having caregivers last week so that I can get out in peace and give him help and stimulation. Thanks all for this site!!!