Stop & change direction is fine but joining country clubs churches groups in your vicinity that specialize in fibromyalgia etc is just not my thing so having trouble changing direction. Also Raised 3 kids. Had small antique store. Worked in hospital ob/gyn Hospice. Raised a bipolar manic depression husband. Or rather dealt with him being my youngest sons father & believing in him when no one else would. I am no better off than anything. Kind of lost now & in pain. Appreciate your input.