Hi Lisa, I'm still not feeling well. My sister Gail's husband is a pain in the ass, big time and I can't get his voice and face out of my head. I am blocking him all the time because I want nothing to do with him. He is an angry man who likes to argue with everyone and that's what his brother said about him. My sister Gail has dementia, it's progressing but she is still functioning. When it's grey out I have to use my sad lamp and I have arthritis.