@parus- Why bother? Such a great question. I bother because I want to make a difference in this world and I think that I have and can still continue to. I want to help take care of it, feed the birds and see you my son and daughter, be with my family and and friends. I want to visit more countries and see as much as I can see. Bothering is caring, we know this but bothering at all is a way out of our individual traps. I have to get angry at myself, or my husband does. Then I start to move and get going instead of not doing anything and making things worse for myself. As you have stated we have to take action and not just wait for a miracle.