Hearing Loss: Come introduce yourself and connect with others
Welcome to the Hearing Loss group on Mayo Clinic Connect.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with hearing loss, and friends and family supporters. Whether you were born deaf or hard of hearing, experienced hearing loss after birth or with aging, it helps to connect with others. Together we can learn from each other, support one another and share stories about living with hearing loss, coping with challenges and celebrating milestones.
Let’s chat. Why not start by introducing yourself? What is your hearing loss experience? Got a question, tip or story to share?
Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Hearing Loss Support Group.
Hi JK and Everyone! I'd like to say a few more words about HLAA. Yes, it's a terrific organization, and the peer support piece of HLAA can be life changing especially for people with adult onset hearing loss. Some chapters have parent's groups too. HLAA Chapters exist because people with hearing loss start them. They are not run by professionals. Some meet in the evenings, others meet in the afternoons. That decision comes from inside each chapter, based on what the nucleus of the chapter decides will work. If there is no HLAA chapter in your area, why not start one? It's not that difficult. When I started the chapter in my community, I went to the news media and asked them to write a story about HLAA, and why I wanted to start a local chapter. I arranged for meeting space at our local library, set a time, etc. Over 50 people showed up that night! Eleven of them agreed to work to develop a chapter. It was an incredibly rewarding experience. Those eleven people ranged in age from 35 to 85. We became friends. We learned a ton, and have been reaching out to others with hearing loss ever since. Yes, things change. Some of our original members have passed away, some have moved away, but new people continue to join us. I encourage everyone out there that isn't in an area where an HLAA chapter exists, to consider helping HLAA grow. It's up to you to make that happen! National HLAA staff has resources to help you. Call on them. You won't regret it.
@julieo4 My name is Mike Miles and I am an active HLAA member at the local and state level in PA. I am currently trying to start an HLAA Chapter in Berks County, PA. I am using the HLAA member list as well as the PA newsletter mailing list to try and attract interested members to help organize a chapter. Not having much luck so far. I like your idea of contacting the local media. Would you happen to have a copy of the article that was written which attracted so much interest? What chapter is it? Any information you learned along the way is welcome. Thanks.
Hi Mike. My HLAA chapter is in the Fox Valley area of Wisconsin. Fox Valley Regional Chapter meets in Appleton WI. The chapter is 35 years young, so that article is in the history books. There is no reason why you cannot do this today. It took quite a bit of courage for me to come out of my 'hearing loss closet' and go public with my invisible disability. Like many people, I had been hiding it for years. Not sure you'd get the same response I had back then because hearing loss is talked about more today than it was then. But why not try? Ask someone in the features department to write an article about what you want to do; share info about HLAA, etc. Share a story with a meeting announcement. Have a location and timeline available so that can be a piece of the story. I also went directly to people I saw who had hearing aids, and asked if they might be interested in helping me. I think that made a difference. We had no e-mail then, so personal communication was the only way to connect. HLAA was SHHH then, and was a very young organization. I really believe that if you can get 4-5 dedicated people, who want to learn how to live WELL with hearing loss, you can get something going and build on that. The 2019 HLAA National Convention is pretty close to your area. Create awareness of that event and encourage people to go. Good luck! Hey, just listening to the people on this list talking about how alone they often feel, says that people need to come together to talk and learn.
@IndianaScott My husband's father came from Sicily, his mother had roots in Naples.
I do miss wine country a lot. I was actually getting a bit learned about wines so a friend gave me a little kitchen sign that said "Wine Diva".
JK
@julieo4 Hi Julie. I would love to see one in this area but I am really not an initiator or organizer, and at this point in my life, I don't think that's going to change. I may have been more able to do that when I was younger, probably best when I was in my 50s actually and had gained confidence with life experience, but not now, in my 70s.
I would be a great co-organizer though if someone else got it started.
JK
Hello Sparklegram. Thanks for the welcome. What is your situation?
JoAngela
@joangela - Let's see... my situation is that I'm 74. I've worn hearing aides since 1991 for a pretty normal hearing loss. I currently need new ones. I think it is abominable that there is no or very little coverage for seniors for hearing aids, glasses, and dental work!! I think my hearing has worsened since I got my last pair of hearing aids. I have Phonak, and they've been good, but I want to have an in-depth interview with my audiologist before I get a new pair. I have an excellent company here that works hard to find just the right hearing device for your particular hearing loss. My grandmother and mother both had hearing loss. My grandmother wore hearing aides but my mother refused! I've told my husband that i would pull my hearing aides behind me in a wheelbarrow if I had to! i can't stand not being able to hear.
@sparklegram My last pair of hearing aids was Phonaks and I loved them for their directionality. I could be in a noisy restaurant with hearing friends, and with that option on I could hear the person I was speaking to better than they could hear me! Unfortunately, my clarity declined so I now have Oticon OPN1` hearing aids. At the time I purchased them, about 2.5 years ago, they were the most innovative for clarity and they did help significantly with that. Now they have the OPNs which is supposed to be a 15% improvement.
JK
Sometimes just starting a conversation with someone else who has hearing loss/hearing aids, can lead to 'getting together to talk about it'. Who knows, that could evolve into a chapter. HLAA has chapter coordinators in some states, but not all. If there is a state association in your state, that may be your starting point. Who knows....there could be other people asking the same question. I'm your age, and I'm still actively involved. 🙂 So many people need to talk. A YMCA or worship center may be a great place to start.
Hey Marty @mkc4ever, welcome to Connect.
You may appreciate this discussion as you prepare for your upcoming appointment with the ENT specialist:
– Your Tips on How to Get Off to the Best Start with a New Specialist https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/your-tips-on-how-to-get-off-to-the-best-start-with-a-new-specialist/
When is your appointment? What makes you apprehensive about it?