Wow! I’m with you, I would never ask someone to take a taxi from the airport to get to my house! It seems to me that she could’ve had the grandchild nap earlier. As for Christmas gifts we do White Elephant. So I don’t expect a gift from our daughters although they do normally give me something but not even a card this year. I’m sure my depression isn’t helping how invisible I feel or is how I feel making my depression worse? 2019 is going to be the start of a new journey of my husband and I putting ourselves first and we’re going to start doing things we want instead of bailing out our kids every time they have a money problem. We certainly learned how to survive and it’s time they do too. We’ve spent thousands of dollars and I’ve depleted my 401K to help them. It’s time for us now.