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Holiday Feelings: Are They Merry or Stressful?

Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Nov 9, 2022 | Replies (172)

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@suerc-Welcome to Mayo Connect.- This can be such a stressful time of year. Can you complain to anyone about your contractor? He has to have a license from some dept. Also, since it's the holidays tell him that you need your bedroom back, that you have back problems and he will have to set up somewhere else. Maybe you have a deck that he can use? That's where my contractor set up. He also cleaned up everything and vacuumed the floors every night . I think that you need to put your foot down with him and make sure that your life is disrupted the least amount.
Are you in PT for your back? Do you still need pain meds for it?
I'm not sure what your daily routine is like but I know that I need to prioritize everything. Are you having Christmas at your house?

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My son had us to Rodchester for Christmas with his family so we had a 2 he Dr town and back. We will just have a quiet Christmas eve and Christmas day. My daughter is in forest lake so she is going to cook for us. I just started P.T. I have my turtle shell back brace on for 3 more weeks then a smaller brace. I really just want to lay in my own bed and rest. I am tired and yes I have dilaudid if I have pain but I try not to use it.

well I don't know if you all remember me but I just need to vent. This contractor is still here working, However at Christmas I told him we were going to my sons in Rodchester and when we get home all this crap should be out of the house and the garage. I said if it is not I will personaly do it myself. He said oh you cant do that. So we left for the weekend and when we came home it was all gone. Yay. He didn't come back to work till yesterday to grout. we are working on the shower . he came to work yesterday at 2:30 and left at 6:30. only got half the shower done. at this rate it will take him another month. we are on our 4th month now and I feel like my space is so invaded !!! I have had a broken back. I just want to lay down in my own bed and rest and I cant and I just want to cry.