Hey,ladies, this beats the alternative, if you get my drift. I like the fact that I worked hard all my life and am in better shape than some of my friends as a result. If I keep working a little each day, it gives me self respect and pride in my achievement, which I need. My deceased husband used to tell me he was going to outlive me because I had so many health problems. He has been gone 12 years now, and I inherited everything, although at the last minute he tried to give property to the children which would have left me with no income. His attorney didn't allow that to happen, thank God. My self respect has been restored and I can accept having a little help with the responsibilities now. That means a lot to me. Communicating with others keeps me cheerful. Dorisena