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Loss & Grief | Last Active: Mar 1, 2020 | Replies (111)

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@maddiec

When people ask me how I am I say.."I'm not fine, I'm not good...I'm doing the best I can." That is my truth..
Would it be helpful for you to find a support group to sit and talk with those who have experienced our kind of loss?
Sometimes being able to talk in a "safe space" is extremely helpful..no judgments, no time frames, just speaking your truth..
As far as how long you were married, doesn't matter..we lost our life partners...and with them went our life as we knew it.
I'm so sorry..:(

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I was thinking about a support group but indecisive. Spoke to the hospital counselor and said I was too emotonal??? Today makes a month already and has been a hard day. Just when I think I'm ok, I crumble. People tell me hes in a better place and pain free...I understand that and am grateful but it doesnt make it better as I miss him, i miss us every minute of the day. So heartbroken.