My granddaughter, other relatives. Since my husband was never officially diagnosed with disorders, perhaps I should avoid mentioning my experiences with him on this site. My only point is that living with disorders and studying how to cope with it can make a person quite knowledgeable about caring for difficult circumstances. That is how I survived 50 years of the stress. I will avoid certain replies in the future. My sister's family had genetic problems with ADHD so I was supportive of her efforts to live with the problems. Dorisena