Hi @dazlin it must be difficult having a family member's health negatively affect you.

I wanted to introduce you to fellow Connect members @godsgiver @IndianaScott and @chocolate5lover as they can sympathize with a family member changing their lives, and may be able to offer support as you learn how to cope with the havoc you mentioned.

I also wanted to share that you can call any of the three Mayo Clinic campuses and ask if they offer such services. You'll find those numbers at this link: https://www.mayoclinic.org/appointments

@dazlin, you mentioned that your family member is wreaking havoc on you. Would you be comfortable explaining, or giving an example of behaviors that are causing you so much distress?