@karen I will tell you how to get rid of this whole situation. I was living in an apartment but before that for about 6 months in my son's back yard in a cottage. I had a car when I arrived and had an accident and never replaced the car. = suggestion from my son It was horrible. He questioned everything and if I was taking a med that he did not like in the trash it went. Or in his desk...... He loves me, but is a control freak. Somehow my daughters heard about all this and they got involved. My daughter flew me up to Idaho to see my other daughter and we looked at Independent housing. They knew what I had gone through and were devestated by it all. I love my baby boy...I really really do, but I was dying there from be smothered. I am human again. There are other problems which I will not go into, regarding finances etc, but my advise get out of there For some reason, there is little belief regarding Rhematoid and fibermyalgia.