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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Feb 29 9:09am | Replies (62)

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@elwoodsdad What you say may just be an accurate description of living, a mixture of the good and the bad in different proportions. Your life may be tilted towards difficulties. Everyone needs to have a compelling interest in something outside himself--in that you can (even briefly) look away from your problems and feel your greater value. After a life of so much care-giving, maybe that outside interest should focus on developing your own talents, friendships, or even adventures.

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Thanks for your reply and interest. I do have some friends with whom I meet weekly, and have some church-related activities which I do as a volunteer. Volunteering is frustrating, or maybe I am frustrating. I find that when one gives away one's time, the recipient is not especially appreciative...now a large check is a different story. I am an Elder in my church (much to their chagrin, I'm guessing), and attempt to do those things we have been tasked with in the care of others. I work with a homeless program, a food bank, and work in the administration of ministry in this Presbytery. I stay busy enough, for the most part. Just enjoying the prospect of the unknown...