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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Feb 29 9:09am | Replies (62)
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I am fortunate to have been a caregiver for my parents, and my wife’s parents. I am now past 70, married to a good woman, and a childless only child. No major issues save a struggle with blood pressure and weight. I suffer from major depressive episodes, and medication over the last 30 years is a contributor to the weight issues. I am fortunate to not have many physically debilitating issues, but I’m so fearful of the future. We don’t have funds for assisted living, and my hope we can age in place. The depression just adds. Guess life is one day at a time...any suggestions?
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@elwoodsdad What you say may just be an accurate description of living, a mixture of the good and the bad in different proportions. Your life may be tilted towards difficulties. Everyone needs to have a compelling interest in something outside himself--in that you can (even briefly) look away from your problems and feel your greater value. After a life of so much care-giving, maybe that outside interest should focus on developing your own talents, friendships, or even adventures.