Hi @lclancy and @jimmy2248, I want to welcome you both to Connect.

LClancy, I modified the title of your discussion to "Bladder Cancer: Stage 2 high grade" to distinguish it from these discussions about bladder cancer where you can read of the experiences of other members like @barneythe2nd @billskid @frankweathers @ktaubman @karper and @predictable.
- Bladder Cancer: High grade https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/bladder-cancer-1/
- Bladder cancer https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/bladder-cancer-20c2b4/

I'm so glad you found Connect to help you through this weekend and that Jimmy saw your call for support. Waiting is sometimes the hardest part. It helps to hear from someone who has been there.

@jimmy2248, you may also have some valuable experience to share with members in this discussion:
- Ostomy: Adapting to life after colostomy, ileostomy or urostomy https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/ostomy-adapting-to-life-after-colostomy-ileostomy-or-urostomy/