Thanks Erika @erikas yes, where do you draw the line? We don’t need anyone suing us on his behalf to collect damages. We will look into it. We have enough of our own worries. Besides the kids we help our elderly parents as well. I keep track of everything for my elderly mother who is 90 years old. She depends on me because of her low vision and language barrier. Thanks for the advice. I know if I warn our son about anything he says yes and then forgets about it. I can’t always trust what he says is right when he has a difficult time reading people. Often his wishful perception is wrong. Toni