Autoimmune diagnosing
Hi, I'm just a bit frustrated and wanted to talk to some people going through the same things. I thought I had Celiac disease but because I really don't like going to the doctors I avoided getting a for sure diagnosis and went gluten free. It's definitely helped with a lot of my symptoms. I got a blood test a few months ago for my doctor. My platelet count was extremely low as well as my iron and b12. She told me it looked like something autoimmune but I didn't know what that meant and she didn't press me to see other doctors about it. She also mentioned something seemed strange with my bone marrow. I didn't think anything of it. I thought the vitamins she suggested were all I needed. Well in the past couple months I've been in more pain than usual. Sharp chest pains, stiff and painful joints and I ache everyday. I've also had a persistent low grade fever. I get sharp pains in my hands too. I feel super weak and fatigued daily which I've always had bouts of but for awhile being gluten free helped. I can't keep up with my boyfriend when we go on walks anymore. My pain keeps me up at night. I have a few other symptoms but these are the most frustrating ones. Does anyone have any idea what this could be? I set up a doctors appointment but it'll be another month till they can see me.
Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Autoimmune Diseases Support Group.
Hello @dragonl8y, and welcome to Connect. Your insight about autoimmune diseases is so true! We have a few discussions about lupus/systemic lupus that might interest you:
- Systemic lupus erythematosus (SLE): https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/systemic-lupus-erythematosus-sle/
- Tumid Lupus with SLE Symptoms?: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/tumid-lupus-with-sle-symptoms/
- Have a few autoimmune disorders - now have consistent low grade fever https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/have-a-few-autoimmune-disorders-now-have-consistent-low-grade-fever/
Do let me know if you'd like to hear from fellow members who've shared their experiences about living with various types of lupus; I'd love to connect you with them.
Dear @alphacat and @dntsass01,
Loss and grief is one common experience we have at one time or another, but losing a child is beyond the natural order of things – I am in awe of the resilience and strength you must have to cope with such unimaginable loss!
I want you to know that you are not alone in your grief. There is a conversation on Connect, "Loss and Grief: How are you doing?" https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/loss-and-grief-how-are-you-doing/ – whenever you feel ready to join the conversation, you will find that it is a safe place to get support, comfort and encouragement from Connect members who care. Writing out your thoughts, sharing them may let those incredibly painful emotions rest for a bit.
There is a Korean proverb that says, “When a parent dies, they are buried in the ground. When a child dies, they are buried in the parent’s heart."
@alphacat @dntsass01, I wish you peace and beautiful memories, and I hope to read and learn more from your journey towards healing.
Such a nice and very thoughtful reply. Very heartfelt! Peace to all!
Many thanks and blessings to you. You are so right. In my 25 years as an ER Nurse, the hardest patients were children who died. The parent often would give this gutteral primitive wail that pierced my soul. Even so, nothing could have prepared me for doing CPR on my own child, making him a DNR (Do Not Recussitate) and making the choice to not autopsy so that his 21 year old perfect body could give life to others. We may never know why he developed the brain swelling, but an autopsy wouldn't change anything. For nights, I would wake myself up with my own wailing. I'm past that, but the pain of losing part of my very being, a kid mistreated repeatedly by the medical system who should have not died, will be with me for life, as will the daily tears and pain.
Thank you so much for the kind words and the links. I love the Korean proverb.
@alphabet My heart goes out to you So sorry
Have you been tested for Lyme? You will need to find a Lyme Literate MD...
This is off topic. Does anyone know if Mayo in Phoenix accepts Medicare for elders?
Hi @sita, your question is not off topic at all. I'm guessing a lot of folks are asking the question as it shows up on Mayo Clinics site in some frequently asked questions. Here is some more information that hopefully answers your question. Also there are some contact phone numbers at the bottom of the page where someone should be able to give you more specifics if needed.
Insurance frequently asked questions
-- https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide/billing-insurance/insurance/faq
John
@sita all medical services are suppose to except medicare by law.