it is like you know me @janeejane You were spot on -- except it was peanut M&Ms! Honest!

I know every doctor is different, but the doctors I worked with at Mayo never betrayed a confidence and conversation I had regarding some of the more brutal aspects of my wife's condition, etc. Plus her neuro doc was a master at having her 'need' to go to a neighboring room for a weigh-in, etc. so he and I could talk face-to-face.