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Thanks for your feedback. You are right about us being our own best health advocate. I'm not saying we should stop understanding our bodies, how we are feeling and understanding possible causes based on our symptoms. I am saying we need to be sure to talk about our symptoms, not our self diagnosis with the doctor first. You have a good way to approach your open minded physician. I will always encourage self knowledge of both our physical geographies, as well as our emotional landscapes.
I wish all doctors were as open and secure as yours, but unfortunately they aren't all that way. A number of MC members have discussed having problems with their physicians when they offer their research. I am suggesting a potential reason and hopefully something that will help them approach their own doctors differently, without discounting their research. The most important thing is to get to the root cause of the problem and then determine the appropriate treatment or cure to resolve the problem. I think we can do that by collaborating with our physicians, letting them take the lead until trust is established on both the patient and the doctor's parts.
Warm regards,
Gail
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Hello @jigglejaws94,
As a Connect moderator, I always appreciate how relatable and insightful your messages are – I know that many on Connect can identify their experiences with those you describe.
I'm sorry to learn about your diagnosis, and thought you might like to read Shani Weber's Hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (hEDS) story, "Redefining My Life’s Purpose…in a Recliner." The article was just published in our Experts by Experience blog. https://socialmedia.mayoclinic.org/2018/05/18/redefining-my-lifes-purposein-a-recliner-experts-by-experience/
@gailb Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I should specify that I am very aware of the often fragile egos of doctors (and they have a right to that ego after their long training) so I am very careful to be humble when I speak with them. I always preface my comments with "I could be wrong, but..." or "I'm sure you know more about this than I do...". The problem is precisely what others here have said - we often are very well educated about a specific topic simply because we have the time and also the motivation since it is we who are suffering. I was the one who originally diagnosed my Hypothyroidism since the doctor did not have a clue what was causing my symptoms. I suggested a TSH test, she reluctantly wrote one, and bingo! I also diagnosed my husband's Pulmonary Embolism a few years ago when the ER doctors were about to treat him for a heart attack. I begged for a CT scan of his lungs and bingo! I diagnosed my son's skin problem, my brother's Celiac Disease (years ago, before it was common), my mother's DVT (doctor originally sent her home with the instructions to just take Tylenol), my aunt's low vitamin D, and a couple of my friends' medical problems. I've gotten the reputation as the "go to" person for health problems but I honestly do not enjoy it. It's depressing and very time consuming, but I don't know how to tell people I don't have the time to help them.
I had the same doctor for almost 30 years, but she retired, causing me to have to find a new one. She would always listen to me patiently and was grateful for my knowledge. Speaking with her was like speaking with a trusted friend, and her ego was there, but well controlled. Since losing her, I've only been able to find one other doctor with her wonderful combination of self-confidence and humility. He is currently my primary care doctor, but, because he's part of a big doctors' group with all kinds of restrictions and rules, he is very limited in what he can do for me beyond writing referrals, and most of his referrals were doctors he didn't even know.
I agree with those here who say that collaborative medicine - like at Mayo Clinic - is the medicine of the future (together with Functional and Complementary Medicine). No one should have to put the ego of their doctor above their own self-knowledge and their own needs. With the internet and access to excellent information, it's a whole new world out there, so I hope the current crop of young doctors making their way through medical school are taught to respect their patients, especially those who are truly knowledgeable. Reading a health article in a magazine or online is very different from reading (and understanding) multiple studies done on a particular topic (I have access to more than are online), and once a doctor can clearly see that you're an educated, well-read patient, the relationship should instantly change from one of authority figure to subordinate to one of simply two smart people mutually trying to figure out a complex problem.
One more thing, @gailb ...thanks for letting me know of your experience with Nystatin. I'm reluctant to try it because the doctor won't order tests to prove I have the overgrowth (even though I know they're not conclusive) and because he spent such a short time talking with me. I'm afraid the treatment may put more stress on my already overly taxed HPA system. If that happens, my cortisol may rise and everything may get worse. Even so, I haven't ruled it out completely yet and I appreciate you telling me it worked for you. As for my Synthroid dose, I have experimented with taking a lower dose (which made my TSH closer to 2.0) and that made no difference in my symptoms except to make my afternoon crashes worse. 🙁
Gail,
Wonderful advice and well put! I have been very ill for 18 yrs. I am have have always done thorough medical research when it became available via internet.
My Husband said exactly the same things that you suggested, but if course why would I rake his advice.
After many years of tears and frustration I came to that same realization. I still do extensive research, but I am have learned to listen to my Doctors and specialists with respect and only then will i ask questions. My youngest daughter is unfortunately having unexplainable health problems and will mot take my advice and let her Physician take the lead. Its a learning curve that comes with a great cost.
Warm regards,
@sybs_life
Thanks for your comments. I did want to reply though and say that we are our own best health advocate. We know our bodies the best. For those of us who have had weird things going on in our bodies for years -- we have learned to take lots of notes and keep health journals. I am SO VERY THANKFUL that I have a physician who is not intimidated by a knowledgeable patient. Several years ago I suffered a really strange rash. I was concerned that it was leukocytoclastic vasculitis. My physician (family practice) upon seeing it was puzzled and called in the Internal Medicine doc to consult with. Near the end of the visit, I hesitantly and haltingly asked if she would consider whether it was the above-mentioned problem. She promptly responded with - "that is what I'm wondering about". Yay -- my research was accurate and she and I were on the same page. Pity the doctor who can't take a suggestion from a patient. I know it has to be approached carefully. Yet if you have a rather atypical set of symptoms or not the run of the mill kind of a problem ---- it is quite likely that your family practice physician may not know what the problem is. Last month I was diagnosed (a collaborative effort between my physician and myself) with Ehlers-Danlos, hypermobile type (hEDS). She told me that she doesn't have time to be an ESD specialist but said "I will continue to learn through you". I so appreciate her willingness to learn and not have to be controlling or either threatened in any way.