Depression, anxiety and anger
How do you deal with the anxiety and anger that arises from excess stimulation, i.e. noise. Sometimes the noise around me is so loud I cant hear myself think. Cant focus or concentrate which leads to frustration and ultimately anger. It gets so bad I have to physically exit the environment until I calm down. Being an introverted depressive is not fun in an extroverted world.
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@johnsonk
I'm a depressed introvert, too. My wife and I live in the country on ten acres, so home is a peaceful place, except that my wife likes to have the TV on nearly all day. I go sit in the bedroom to get away from the noise.
I've always been a calm person, and I don't experience anger often. Irritated, but not angry. But I can surely connect with the need to get away from the noise to calm my emotions. It's easy to get over stimulated, for sure.
Jim
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3 ReactionsI think I have sensitive hearing. It is especially noticeable if I'm stressed or if I need to focus on a task. I have to use ear plugs when the loud sounds begin to annoy me too much. But, I have not found any way to muffle the blasting bass that vibrates at nearly glass shattering level when cars go up and down the neighboring street. I also despise movie theaters because of the volumes.
I enjoy quiet and peaceful environments.
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2 Reactions@johnsonk I also find a quiet environment to be restorative - add to that a good book and life is great!
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2 Reactionsit's fine to leave but start trying things that may help you calm down w/o having to leave-deep breathing, visualization, counting to 10 w/ controlled breathing, just focus on one thing in the room with tunnel vision, lean in and get closer to conversation
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3 ReactionsIt’s a difficult thing to deal with I too am an introvert and I get an intense feeling of loneliness when I am surrounded by people as for dealing with loud noises I just take out headphones and listen to music soothing one with a book in my hand.One has to devise a plan to somehow to accept our limitations as an individual and also acquire the ever elusive inner peace
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3 Reactions@abida I am sorry. I can identify.
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1 ReactionWhat works for one may not work for another. This does not mean "another" has failed.
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2 ReactionsI agree one hundred percent everyone has to keep on trying for a formula which works for them.I for one keep on praying for myself as well all others facing this delimma
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1 ReactionAll good suggestions but leaving the environment is usually my last resort, after all of the aforementioned have failed.
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1 ReactionHeadphones are a great idea unless the volume has to be turned way up to block out all the noise which in turn gives me a migraine.
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