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Kidney transplant - The Journey from the Donor's Side
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Well, it's been a tough past few days. The transplant team decided I was not a good candidate to give a kidney. They decided the fibromuscular dysplasia of the two top renal arteries may cause problems for me later. I have had a difficult time with this. I have been praying about this and later going through the screening process and then testing - for the past year. I had time off arranged from work, a plan for care after surgery, had talked to my family and now it's just not going to happen. I know God has a reason and I need to trust Him. Ugh! I know I can be used in other ways to help others, I guess it will just take time to adjust. I asked about being a non directed liver donor but they said Mayo doesn't do non directed for livers. Good luck to those of you waiting to either donate or to receive a kidney. I'll be glad to answer any questions about the donor process for anyone that has them. Thanks for your prayers and encouragement!
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@hopefulgirl I can read in your words how passionate you were about donating. I feel your disappointment. I'm glad you trust in God. He has a plan and I'm guessing there is something bigger & better in store for you. You are a super hero to all of us waiting for a transplant. I commend you for your courageousness & generosity. Your selflessness is beyond measure. God bless you.
@hopefulgirl I understand your frustrations and sadness. As you said there are other ways for you to help. I tried to be my husband's donor but was unable to do so. It is so disappointing when you want to do whatever you can to help someone.
Prayers for peace and guidance for you.
JoDee
hopefulgirl, I have heard others speak of their own disappointment after being unable to be a living donor. They also struggled with their emotions about it. As a recipient, (deceased donor) I think I can confidently say that your courage, your love, and commitment to be evaluated is a sign of HOPE to patients who are waiting for organs.
I look forward to continuing conversation with you whenever you feel ready.
Hugs.
@hopefulgirl I applaud your efforts. We all do. Remember, the transplant team wants you healthy, also! Can you consider bone marrow or stem cell transplants to help someone, after all your testing? You are a hero.
Ginger
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@hopefulgirl I am sorry for your disappointment. I can imagine how you must feel after being so ready to do this, and now not being allowed to. I am sure you will find different ways to help others though, that's good that you are moving forward with such a positive attitude.
JK