I did not grow up in the area where I live and gave up trying to find a place. I went to a water Tai Chi class as I always enjoyed doing Tai Chi. I was disappointed in what I found there. The instructor was awesome-all of the seniors were there only to gossip. I left before the class was over and did not return. They were rude and disrespectful. I took none of it personally. Found the same in any senior center. They have them and in some areas they may be helpful. I am not into gossip. It ruins things for others. The loud and obnoxious take over. I understand their need for a social life, but when I try to mingle I get nowhere. I am well rounded and have many interests. I stay with going to the store early in the morning when we oldies and goodies are shopping. I have met many interesting folks this way. There are many interesting people around. We know each other by face where we shop and this seems to work better for this senior. I am not one to sit and veg in front of a TV. I have many topics I can discuss-still, gossip takes over.
Church was mentioned. Again, even folks in church cannot get along even at church. I had thought about it and remembered past experiences.
So, now I come here and this helps. I can come here and be "me".
I have days that getting out of bed may be my best for that day and this is okay. Chronic pain and depression are a constant uphill climb. I have done many things in my life and now it is time to take care of myself.