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How to have the discussion with dad about assisted living?
Caregivers: Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI) & Dementia | Last Active: Sep 20 6:43am | Replies (6)Comment receiving replies
@asha1960
Our Mom went from independent living to memory care, with no assisted living in-between due to her sharp decline.
I think your answer lies in what his capacity is to make informed decisions. As mentioned, if he's unable to act in his own best interest, and perhaps has no executive functioning, his POA will need to kick in.
Have you discussed his Advanced Directive with him, so you know his wishes if he becomes incapacitated or requiring specialty care? Is he still lucid enough to make his wishes known? Did his Will have any details regarding same?
Good luck to you. 🌼
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@judimahoney thanks so much! Yes everything is in order as far as medical directive and will. I spoke with the facility director and she assured me they watch for certain behaviors and will keep me informed. She said he is really doing great right now except some shortness of memory. At least I know they are observant . I guess I have to take things day by day at this point !!