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I understand your pain especially the exhaustion and confusion. Lost my husband of 50
In December. No illness no warning. Sepsis. I feel
So alone. And i feel
Like
I should be better. Its been 8 months.

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@luck1157
I’m so sorry for your sudden loss. How do we measure better’? I have symptoms of stress recently with some hair falling out in the shower. My new doctor yesterday said it’s likely stress accumulation. When my puppy makes laugh, I feel guilty for having joy. It hasn’t been a year yet. Our 45th anniversary will be in November. So, I can’t even predict how soon better will happen.
Hugs.

@luck1157, with loss and grief, there are no "shoulds". Everyone grieves on their own timeline in their own way. There is no "right" way or prescribed timeline.

One day at a time. How are you doing today? What is one thing you'd like us to know about your husband that makes you smile?