@dotygl I thank God I've read your posting I thought I was going crazy. My partner had a liver transplant and seems to be so different. I have been married to him for 20 years. He chose to cheat on me and i asked him why he has no explanation. Supposedly it was just conversation. He is not who I married. After all I did for him took care of him in his time in need. I feel so betrayed he has never acted so cold hearted and he has also given me the silent treatment for days over petty things. He has been distant with his children. He is not one to seek help. I myself put on a smile for my babies but am so hurt and betrayed. I dont know who to blame the medication, the donor, my husband himself . The kids and I are at a lost for words in who we got back after the transplant.