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Talking Frankly about Living with Advanced Cancer

Cancer | Last Active: Jun 18, 2023 | Replies (508)

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@fiesty76

@colleenyoung, Thanks for your response. Yes, you make good points. Her partner endured this dreadful experience with the mother of his children many years ago. He is a wonderful man and so attentive. If he is busy when I call, leaving a message will at least let him know they are in my thoughts.

Not sure about the multi-day portions for less frequent deliveries because it seems a priority just to turn out one main meal each day for myself. Usually my previous meals were enough for more than one meal and I did sometimes use sealable baggies, which I'd forgotten about, and still have some multi-sized tin foil containers and can order more. Less for him to have to clean up would be helpful for him as well.

We've given him a hard time for years about his diet preferences and yet, he is in his 80's, is very active, takes no otc or prescriptions,and has had only one surgery, either gall or kidney stones. Luckily my friend and I share similar tastes so that helps tremendously. Thanks again for reminding me about using more disposables...my mind is in more of a fog these days but it can't be due to aging because I yam still the same age as a few months ago, right? Smiles.

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@fiesty76 What an awesome friend you are! I know that your closest friend and her partner are thrilled to have you in their lives.

Not sure where you live, but can you look in to Meals on Wheels perhaps, or contact a culinary college/group nearby that may be able to give you some ideas? Being in a rural community like i am, if I was faced with such an issue, letting people know would result in a chain of meals delivered, or access to a delivery system out of the county seat [an hour away].

And, what are you doing for yourself, knowing this Stage 4 MBC has returned to revisit her? This must be difficult for you, too.
Ginger