I very much connect with what you’ve said. My husband has faced a variety of illnesses in the past 2 years: prostate cancer, radiation, severe low back pain withradiculopathy from spinal,stenosis, bilateral, two-level laminectomies and foraminotomies, pneumonia with sepsis, mild dementia . Recently he had a UTI after his urologist performed a cystoscopy, and the last month he has deteriorated both physically and mentally. He often doesn’t know if it’s day or night, says bizarre things not connected to reality, and is increasingly needy, lonely and sad. Very difficult to watch and live through