Best adult diapers/pads for post prostate surgery

Posted by bkop @bkop, Aug 10, 2025

My husband is having his prostate removed soon and is very worried about managing incontinence. Please share what adult diapers/pads worked best for you (absorption, odor, comfort) immediately after the catheter was removed and then during further recovery. Thank you!

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I’ve tried a dozen different ones. Tena men’s sensitive max protection overnight pads by far the most absorbent.

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I wear a CVS Depends type product and wear CVS incontinence maximum pads going thru 6 to 8 a day. With CVS providing discounts, I find them the most affordable

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I am due to have a radical prostatectomy in early September. Can anyone give me guidance on what the best "men's diapers" are for the first weeks after catheter removal. My search shows so many options and I was wondering what most men find work the best. I appreciate any advice.

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I am due to have a radical prostatectomy in early September. Can anyone give me guidance on what the best "men's diapers" are for the first weeks after catheter removal. My search shows so many options and I was wondering what most men find work the best. I appreciate any advice.

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Everyone has their favourite.
Buy one packet of a couple of brands of pads & try them out now.
That way, you won't be buying 10 packs of ones you don't like.
I like Tena.

And one small tip... don't buy any white pants. Get blue if you can.

You may be able to get free samples here: https://try.tena.us/pages/welcome

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Everyone has their favourite.
Buy one packet of a couple of brands of pads & try them out now.
That way, you won't be buying 10 packs of ones you don't like.
I like Tena.

And one small tip... don't buy any white pants. Get blue if you can.

You may be able to get free samples here: https://try.tena.us/pages/welcome

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@peterj116 Thank you for your response. I appreciate it very much.

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Profile picture for riseball @riseball

I am due to have a radical prostatectomy in early September. Can anyone give me guidance on what the best "men's diapers" are for the first weeks after catheter removal. My search shows so many options and I was wondering what most men find work the best. I appreciate any advice.

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I went with the regular Depends for the week I had a cath and wore only the diaper and a loose fitting tee shirt. I draped a pad over the chair I sat in and those two worked fine.

You will need to get some shields that slip into your underwear for after your cath come out. They have thicker and thinner ones you will likely need both.

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Profile picture for riseball @riseball

I am due to have a radical prostatectomy in early September. Can anyone give me guidance on what the best "men's diapers" are for the first weeks after catheter removal. My search shows so many options and I was wondering what most men find work the best. I appreciate any advice.

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IMO Depends are the top brand, Tena is good too. At first I was leaking a lot, so wore a depends with an extra pad in it at night. I could pull the pad out if it was wet and not need to change the depends. A mattress protecting pad is a good idea too, You might get lucky and not have much incontinence. Good luck.

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Profile picture for riseball @riseball

I am due to have a radical prostatectomy in early September. Can anyone give me guidance on what the best "men's diapers" are for the first weeks after catheter removal. My search shows so many options and I was wondering what most men find work the best. I appreciate any advice.

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Hope and pray your experience is like mine! Only used one or two “diapers”. Continence returned quickly.

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I went with the regular Depends for the week I had a cath and wore only the diaper and a loose fitting tee shirt. I draped a pad over the chair I sat in and those two worked fine.

You will need to get some shields that slip into your underwear for after your cath come out. They have thicker and thinner ones you will likely need both.

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@jayhall Thank you very much.

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Profile picture for riseball @riseball

I am due to have a radical prostatectomy in early September. Can anyone give me guidance on what the best "men's diapers" are for the first weeks after catheter removal. My search shows so many options and I was wondering what most men find work the best. I appreciate any advice.

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I had no incontinence problems immediately after surgery. Yes, they put in a catheter. I had it for two weeks since my surgery was 16 years ago, today they leave it in for around seven days. . Never had any leaking around it, Some people do report that but all you need is a pad.

After I had the catheter removed, I did not have incontinence, About 10% of people report that.

I did start having incontinence about 10 after surger. I found the Tena Pads worked really well. Amazon sells them. After having problems with Incontinencefor 6 years, I had an AUS put in and now I don’t have any problems . I just mentioned that so you know there is no reason you have to live with it.

Don’t buy too many pads right away. You never know what your level of incontinence will be and what you need until you actually have that catheter out.

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