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Disliking who they’ve become

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@defleurs I agree about quality of life over any kind of procedure.I have decided that we are done with the dermatologist and now thankfully we are done with the oncologist as his last PET scan came back negative for the mantle cell lymphoma he had in 2024 and for which he received chemo that just about killed him. From now on it is comfort care only. He is in stage 6 one the FAST scale. I don't know how long he will be in this stage before he gets to stage 7 which is the last stage. This is all so sad. I finally went to see my psychologist today and will see her every week for the next month. She is helping me with the grief that I am feeling every day.

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Upsetting to hear your situation. Glad that you discontinued useless follow ups.

Medical science wants to keep us seeing them. We need to decide what is valuable and what is not.

I value each day. There is always something positive that happened.