if and when to have the HoLEP procedure

I'm 82. Stage 4 PC (Gleason 3+4, and one local lymph node). WITH a 100 cc prostate. Been on Orgovyx for 2.5 months. Up 4 times/nigh to pee. After a year of nocturia, I'm almost used to the getups. They're so regular. My urologist, whom I consulted ONLY for nocturia (until all the scans and biopsy proved the cancer), is still thinking probable HoLEP for me.
I am reading, however, that Orgovyx may probably reduce the size of my prostate by up to 30%. And I don't know what impact the size reduction will/would have on my nocturnal urgencies. But in any event, all sites I consult suggest that a HoLEP procedure would have to be done BEFORE radiation. That would postpone radiation (which I understand SHOULD go hand in hand with the relugolix) for up to 6 months.
My dilemma, you see, is whether to just live my remaining years with the 4 nightly pees (which I have to say I'm almost used to now) or let my urologist do the HoLEP , hope for a speedy complication-free recovery, and THEN do the radiation...or to start the radiation as soon as my medical oncologist and radiologist deem it time to proceed with that.
Best,
Kit