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Any parents caring for adult children? Let's share

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Hi, my wife and I are 73 and 71, and honored to be able to take care of our son that will celebrate next month his 50th birthday 🎂
He was born with a complex Congenital Heart problem, he had it repaired initially when he was 8 months old, and had 6 additional open heart surgeries throughout the years. 3 years ago he had a successful heart transplant at the Mayo Clinic just as the other surgeries and treatments. During 2 of his lengthy surgeries he had strokes that has given him challenges in cognitive and neurological abilities. He is a wonderful man and we are happy to have him living with us and to take care of him when needed. I don’t say it’s easy at this stage of our life, but knowing that we need to be here for him gives us the extra stamina and energy to continue with joy and love.

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@fair2all hi , I’m very interested in and can relate to your situation. I’m 76 and dealing with gMG and my husband is 77 and still working because we need the money . Our 37 year old son is staying with us and is a real challenge. In short he’s very smart and can work but he’s what they now call neurodivergent or on the autism spectrum. I just thought he would become a scientist because was so good at school. However smart he is he cannot navigate the real world in relationships and refuses others and family suggestions. It’s complicated but we are at our wits end in helping him.
I will comment another time ( tired need to rest) but I just wanted to say you are not alone .