@dederickve Actually, having the process, relaxes me more than trying to find everything he has lost. I remember, that knapsack, that he took out of the car at the hotel, put it on the ground, never knew, and of course, we couldn't find it later. What are the odds that backpack would still be sitting out there in the dark, with people going in and out of the driveways. We were lucky we found it because at that time, he was hoarding all the checkbooks and everything else confidential in there. Thanks for your note back. I feel for you too and every caregiver going through what we're dealing with. Best, Karla