@becsbuddy also try your local area office of on aging if one exists where you are. AARP may have helpful information. I feel for you you’re doing your best but it can be a lonely road. Some assisted living facilities offer respite care to help the caregiver be able to take a break.

@becsbuddy Thank you. I will try your suggestions. He currently lives with me in Raymore Missouri, Kansas City area. So he needs to establish residency in Nebraska again. He is going through the divorce which is not final yet, so he sort of needs to know the out come of that concerning his children, marital assets, etc. before he can apply for anything in another state. Another tough hurdle is he will be dropped from his wife’s insurance plan when the divorce is final. He does have Medicare but will need supplemental insurance. He is slightly over the limit in Missouri & Nebraska to qualify for Medicaid. His disability income is not enough to sustain him. SO lots of hurdles still.