It is a very emotional journey. Please don't get discouraged. It IS overwhelming, for sure.
After my husband's bcg treatments for
NIBC failed, a radical cystectomy was suggested. We went for a second opinion at a universiy hospital with a medical school. The new surgical onocologist advised against removal at this point. He explained there have been many advancements in the treatment of bladder cancer with favorable outcomes in the past several years, and suggested a round of BCG with Anktiva. My husband has one more treatment and we are trying to stay positive that this treatment works.
You are not on this roller coaster alone.