Most of my mood problems are the incontinence issues. Just stressful going in places and especially now with my long walks in this heat I got to really watch it don't get too wet. Overnight I do pretty good I think, last week or two overnight's been .3 to .8 oz. Pad actually feels dry but it did gain weight overnight. Big difference during the day lots of stress incontinence. And I'm doing the kegel exercises, but doctor still won't refer me for pelvic exercises until 3 months so I got another month. Then all the anxiety has caused me to start having PVCs. But I'm trying to be positive, things could always be worse. Hopefully your procedure works well! Thanks for your advice and I always look forward to reading it. I thought about getting something called a mash or something, but they said they don't do them until a year.