I am 84, male, and I have found a way to stand out. Ten years ago, I was getting Mani-peticurs since I couldn't reach my toes. The gals would always ask what color I wanted my nails. For at least six months, I said no. One day I was in a different mood and wanted something different. I chose light blue. I got positive feedback especially from waitresses. Then I got into the holiday spirit and whatever was a symbol of a holiday, I could get the gals to paint the symbols on my nails: Pumpkins, stars & strips, candle flames, flowers, etc. I was in an accident, just me, wearing light blue with sparkles; went to the ER and ended with laughter over the light blue polish. Stopped the cooloring for a while. I have a beard which is pretty much white. Last March, I had the beard dyed Emerald Green, lots of fun. It soon faded and we went to bright blue. In July, I am thinking of bright red. My beginning plan was to do Hot Pink in October for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. And, yes, the blue has faded. A smile is always on.

My second son was a career Air Force. Started as a helicopter pilot. When he stopped flying, he got various teaching and admin assignments. The first time he interviewed for an embassy assignment, the lady from the State Dept asked him why he was smiling. He told her. "I always smile, it keeps me positive and my crews happy. And yes I do understand the seriousness of the assignment."