It seems like I aged overnight, also. For the very first time, I got a trainer. You'd be amazed at how you can firm up your body, feel fantastic and look better in your clothes. I've always had my own style, which includes wearing a statement piece . Pin, earrings or a necklace. It makes me feel like a million bucks. We start to get overlooked in our 50's, so if I can stand out just a little bit, if makes me feel alive. Do I have a bunch of aging on my body, yeah. Painful some days, but I keep that negative bs on the inside. I gave up caring about my wrinkles .