Thank you all for your thoughts and advice, it is hard to know what is the best thing to do is. In my own life I have always been worried that I'd develop ovarian cancer which my mother died from at age 36..I was 6 years old . I understand a life long worry and I am reluctant to put this on my family. I didnt develop ovarian cancer but I did get DIPNECH which led to lung cancer and I've had 2 lobectomys. Gloria