So nice to see such support from you for your wife.
It is smart both of you are concerned about pain killer intake. Sometimes less but a stronger med is worth it. For example if she gets more relief for a longer time frame. Sorry that all her efforts seeking relief so far haven't resolved her pain. I know how frustrating it is having some of her like pain symptoms. No results & working toward less meds since they mostly don't want relieve pain. You're bound to get good feedback, support & tips from folks here. Being open minded about trying new approaches is key. Utilizing some pain distraction techniques can reduce overall frustration, anger & ugh, so such tools can be new 'best-y' go to's. Bravo to you both for tackling this together. All the best.