Shocked by aging process
My fingernails and toenails stopped growing and just keep breaking off. My hair is falling out. My memory is not as sharp and sometimes I feel a little woozy. I hate this. I want my body and my senses back.
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Hi again, @barbaradh
Me, too. I have a half dozen "retired" commonplaces on the shelf. I can't recall when I first started. "Long ago," that's for sure. 🙂
Ray (@ray666)
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1 Reaction@ray666 So, much like a diary, although that (diary, or journal) sort of dictates that you post to it daily. While I've never kept a diary or journal, I have a notebook on the nightstand in which I've recorded significant or unusual dreams. Haven't posted anything lately - maybe I need to adjust my late-night snacking to promote something noteworthy.
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5 ReactionsAh, the ol' late-night snacking! That's a weakness of mine, too, @capnjack. It used to be ice cream, but I found myself overindulging. I now use dark chocolate, four little squares, no more, no less. And I make a point of having those square ca. 8 p.m., so they're out of my tummy by bedtime.
I guess I've gotten used to the regimen of a daily journal. But I keep small spiral-bound notebooks scattered about my house, so when I get an idea, I've a place to put it down; otherwise, it'll fly off into the ether.
Cheers!
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Mine is all sorts of paper scraps in the shoe box. ....hopefully not all over the house.
A shoebox will do the trick, @shmerdloff. I've only recently realized that I need to "standize" my note-taking. When I've an idea, I'll grab whatever scrap of paper is readily available. True story? The other day I saw something I'd scribbled on one of those little squares of paper the pachagers put between slices of sliced cheese. I tried to read what I'd written. I couldn't. So no more squares of paper between slices of sliced cheese. From now on, only bona fide notebooks! 🙂
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4 ReactionsIf there's no paper, I'll etch it into the cheese.
Here's one: Sympathy is what you have seeing another person's plight. Empathy comes from having been there yourself and living through another's plight with them.
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8 ReactionsI will often use the Notes area on my iPhone, to jot down things I want to remember, anything from a sermon, the title and author of a book I want to read, thoughts that I want to reflect upon more, to a summary of one of my dad’s doctors appointments. Very handy since phone is usually with me.
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another one:
You are where you are because you are who you are.
After mine, I found Hericlitus beat me to it. Also Sapolsky.😄
@shmerdloff
I like flying my helicopter. If you don't follow the rules, you die.
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3 ReactionsSounds like she was ready to go but didn't want to ruin the holiday party.
Very common to hold off death for various reasons.
May God bless her.
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