Feels like I’m sitting on a ball and Fecal Incontinence!
I have been dealing with this issue for about 3 to 4 years. It started with a feeling of a lot of pressure in my anal area, which has now moved to my vaginal area. My colonoscopy results were normal , however I did have 4 polyps, which were benign. I am still dealing with the pressure, which has gotten considerably worse! It is constant now and travels from my anal area to my vaginal area. Some mornings I wake up with feces in my underwear so I start wearing a pad every night. I now sleep in depends because I never know when it will happen. I am also dealing with bladder incontinence. I saw a Urogynecologist who suggested I try pelvic floor therapy. Needless to say it didn’t work. I saw this doctor because I thought my bladder had dropped. She said everything was fine so she referred me for therapy. My stomach is so bloated and I have lost weight over the past 4 to 5 years. My normal weight is around 145 to 150 lbs. I now weigh from 110 to 115 lbs. I look like a skeleton, to myself. I don’t know where else to turn. I am so tired of this pressure that I am at my wits end! I am either constipated or I’m experiencing diarrhea. I try to eat more so that I can gain weight, but it’s like my weight is at a standstill. Have anyone else experienced any of these symptoms? Or could someone suggest another specialist I should try? Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks in advance!
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@lylii
Thanks @lylii! As stated in a previous post, I’ve had a hysterectomy done and at that time my ovaries were removed. I appreciate your suggestion though. Have a great evening! 😊
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Hi @susan4304,
Thanks for your response to my post! It was much appreciated. I’m sorry that you have gone through a very similar situation, and yes stress does make it worse! I was dating a guy who was extremely insecure. He kept me so stressed that the pain and discomfort got considerably worse. I had to send him packing!! He knew the situation that I was going through, but didn’t seem to care. I figured that was partly the cause of my weight loss. Now that I’m alone I am less stressed, however the damage is done. The pain and pressure is worse and more constant. No one has mentioned a Rectocele before but I have read up on it. The symptoms are very similar to what I am experiencing. As I stated in my other responses, I am going to ask for a referral to see a GI or a Colorectal specialist. Hopefully they will find a diagnosis and a treatment that will help. Thanks again for your suggestion and concern. I hope you enjoy the rest of the evening. 😊
@barbgreen0959
I hope you find relief from these relenting symptoms. I wish you well
@ellesea01
Hi @ellesea01,
Thanks for your response to my post! It was very much appreciated. Thanks too, for noticing the way that I explained my situation. It is such an embarrassing topic, however if I want to get help for this I have to put it all out there! I know of any other way to explain it. I agree that Pelvic Floor Therapy does not help everyone! It has not helped me and I’m tired of doctors suggesting it! I feel like it’s more of a Colorectal issue than a Vaginal issue. Of course I could be wrong, but I know my body! The pressure started in my rectum and has moved to the vaginal area as well. Hopefully I will get some answers after I see the Colorectal or GI specialists. I also agree with your statement that “any ouches down there affects the entire human”. Thanks again and I hope you have a wonderful rest of your evening.
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3 Reactions@creondave
Hi @creondave,
Thanks for your response to my post, it was very much appreciated! I’m sorry that you have had to experience this issue, especially the constipation and overflow part. I never know when it will happen so I sleep in Depends and wear a pad daily. It is quite embarrassing, especially when dealing with flatulence. I’m still working so I try to hold it in, but sometimes it slips out anyway. I try to move around a lot so I won’t be close to anyone when it happens. The smell is horrendous! I don’t know what’s causing that smell but I wish it would go away soon! 🤦🏽♀️ I’m glad that your issue has gotten better. Hopefully they will find a cure that will eradicate both our issues… Thanks again for your response, care and support! I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening! 😊
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2 Reactions@barbgreen0959
Just because ovarian cancer can have very vague, hard to diagnose abdominal symptoms. I'm glad you can disregard that! Best to you!
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2 Reactions@cehunt57
Hi @cehunt57,
Thanks for your response to my post, it was very much appreciated! Sounds like you’re going through several issues at the same time. I really hate to hear that and I pray that your doctors are able to find a cure or treatment that works for you. 🙏🏽 I don’t think anyone in my family has gone through what I’m going through. On my Dad’s side diabetes is more prevalent, and on my Mom’s side cancer is more prevalent. That’s what’s scaring me about what I’m going through. Hopefully it is not cancer and they will find a way to stop the pain and pressure feeling. The scariest thing about my issue is I have lost a considerable amount of weight to where my clothes don’t fit anymore. I try to eat a lot several times a day but now I’m at a standstill. I’m not losing or gaining. I try to stay positive and not think about cancer or anything that serious, however sometimes it creeps back into my head. Thanks again for your response and suggestions. Have a great rest of your evening!😊
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1 Reaction@ameyc2
Hi @ameyc2,
Thanks for your response to my post, it was greatly appreciated! To respond to your question, I have had a colonoscopy done about 2 & 1/2 to 3 years ago and have to go back after 5 years because they found 4 polyps. I am getting a referral to see the GI doctor that performed the colonoscopy or a Colorectal Surgeon to see if I can get some clear answers. If I hear Pelvic Floor Therapy one more time I am going to scream! 😱 That didn’t work for me! That was the diagnosis that both Urogynecologists suggested. After trying it one time and the exercises didn’t help I wasn’t going to try it again. So hopefully I will get better answers from a GI or Colorectal specialist. 🤞🏽Thanks for your response and your suggestions, they are greatly appreciated!
@lacy2
Hi @lacy2,
Thanks for your suggestion! Yes, I have had a colonoscopy done about 2 & 1/2 to 3 years ago. They found 4 polyps that were benign. I have to go back after 5 years since the polyps were found. When I saw this doctor the pain and pressure was not as prevalent as it is now, it was only intermittent. I did mention my issues to the doctor, but I didn’t get a response. So I will go back to him or see a Colorectal Specialist. Thanks again @lacy2! Have a great night!😊
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