Living with Neuropathy - Welcome to the group

Welcome to the Neuropathy group.
This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet other people who are dealing with neuropathy. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with neuropathy, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

I’m Colleen, and I’m the moderator of this group, and Community Director of Connect. Chances are you’ll to be greeted by volunteer patient Mentor John (@johnbishop) and fellow members when you post to this group. Learn more about Moderators and Mentors on Connect.

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Let’s chat. Why not start by introducing yourself? What concerns would you like to talk about?

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@lacy2

Ah Laurie.... it's bad enough not being able to do the "general" things such as cooking, keeping in touch with relatives,driving etc., as we age and have illness (I feel so useless)... but for me, who cannot draw a dog or play a piano or sing etc., it must be terribly hard to not be able to continue things like being an artist, pianist, etc.... things people have achieved and are almost "part of them." Has anyone written a short book about being prepared for this new life of illness and in my case, aging? Well I think you are allowed to talk about how sad it is to not be able to do the things you used to but also to discuss the illnesses and health issues you have gone through.... we all know what its like to "just" have a bad cold or break an arm type thing but you have overcome vry serious things and it must have taken all your inner strength to just get through it all... bless you. 💙🌺💙

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@lacy2 . Thankyou, Lacy, for your lovely post. It feels good to receive your kind of understanding. I'm not that good at singing, though.
When I lived in Winnipeg, Canada, my Grade Six music teacher bent her ear to each of us to listen to whether we could sing on key or not. Winnipeg had a huge annual music festival for school children and I REALLY wanted to participate with all my singer friends. The decision was, through my tears, that I could ATTEND the festival, but I was only allowed to move my lips, and not spoil the chance of our class to win in the choir competition.
WELL, I fooled them. I burst into song with the rest of 'em!! And we WON!
HA!!! lol
Warmest regards.
Laurie

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@jakedduck1 you’re welcome! All those stages are no picnic. Don’t know which is worse, pain or no pain? I believe I presently have the first stage with symptoms of pains being sharp and burning along with numbness. Since my neuropathy developed from surgery, I hope it does not progress. I recently( 1 1/2 months ago) started an exercise routine existing of an hour or more 3 times a week. So far I have not noticed it making a significant difference but I do plan to continue. I believe exercise has many benefits including reducing stress. Trouble is neuropathy limits which activities we can do with our imbalance issues. Wish you well. Toni

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@avmcbellar

@jakedduck1 you’re welcome! All those stages are no picnic. Don’t know which is worse, pain or no pain? I believe I presently have the first stage with symptoms of pains being sharp and burning along with numbness. Since my neuropathy developed from surgery, I hope it does not progress. I recently( 1 1/2 months ago) started an exercise routine existing of an hour or more 3 times a week. So far I have not noticed it making a significant difference but I do plan to continue. I believe exercise has many benefits including reducing stress. Trouble is neuropathy limits which activities we can do with our imbalance issues. Wish you well. Toni

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@avmcbellar
For me no pain is a zillion times better. My balance is horrible but it was horrible before so no big deal and I do weave all over the place when I walk and fall quite a bit but I don't mind falling as long as it's not off the roof, out of a tree, off a latter or down the stairs. Been there done that. I avoid those places now. I’ve done a lot of very stupid things.
Take car,
Jake

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@jakedduck1

@straightway22
I’m curious if you have Epilepsy or some other seizure disorder. I took Dilantin also for quite a while which the doctor say is why I now have neuropathy. I switched to extended release Carbatrol (carbamazepine)
I’m not going to say that it’s any better since all seizure medication have their problems. if you’re looking for a seizure medication without side effects I wouldn’t waste my time. I don’t know of anyone taking seizure medication that doesn’t have some sort of side effects Although they generally seem to improve and some go away after a few months of treatment.
If I was to suggest the safest I would go with
Lamictal (Lamotrigine)
One other thing, although not everybody is susceptible but it’s usually safest to stick with the drug your originally put on meaning if you were put on brand stay on brand if you were put on generic stay on generic I don’t switch back-and-forth. The same holds true for manufacturers always get your medication from the same manufacturer. If I get medication from a different manufacturer I generally have a seizure within two days. changing manufacturers doesn’t phase my brother, although he recently had a seizure, his first one in well over 20 years so who knows why. But I know a great many people that it does affect.
Best of luck to you,
Jake

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@straightway22
I just edited my earlier post. Sorry it was such a mess.
Take it easy,
Jake

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@jakedduck1 Those can be some nasty falls. I am glad you learned how to handle them. I can say from experience by making my limbs and torso stronger through exercise, I can break a fall or use my arms to quickly get back into balance to avoid a fall. I use my quad cane often outside for the backyard which has a decline. I also weave all over the place and walk like a drunk. I haven’t had a fall in years, maybe a near fall. That's another reason for following an exercise routine. Who wouldn’t want to decrease potential injury from a fall? You pay either way, doing exercises or suffering from a fall. I would rather do exercises. It has helped me tremendously with avoiding physical harm and staying away from hospitals. Although careful, I have gotten a few cuts. Nothing I couldn’t handle. I need several first aid kits to keep up with my husband who many times doesn’t realize his cuts and bruises. It has become a joke. All the bandages have been for him so far, lol, and he has no balance issues. Best to you. Toni

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@artist01

@jakedduck1 I know, Jake. We're always told "Sorry, nothing we can do for that". We've all been down that road, that's for sure. But I worry about you.
I read a good research article today about Turmeric and Lichen Planus, which is my latest autoimmune disease diagnosed this week by yet another specialist. No cure known.
Wonder if there's any relationship to my GCA? I'll research that tomorrow.
Prognosis:18 months to forever.
Very painful, difficult to eat, talk, etc.
So depressing. I'm going to give Turmeric capsules a try.
Happy trails to all you good people with the good weather. Ours is coming too!!

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I too have lichen planus everywhere. Does anyone have anything they use for numbing your mouth so you can enjoy normal food every once in a while?

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@jakedduck1

@artist01
“Stoic?” not hardly.
Although I did have problems excepting my diagnosis in the beginning, I came to the conclusion that “it is what it is.” I needed to move past the seizures and the stigma which was so bad in the ’60s. I think coping with life is much easier than ignoring your fate. I only have one hang up. I suppose I could see a psychologist and try to figure it out. A dear friend of mine was a psychologist and I never thought to ask him. He died in 2009 on his driveway from Convulsive Status Epilepticus. I had a great family and terrific friends who didn't care if I had Epilepsy.
I don't mind the loss of memory or Neuropathy but to this day losing the ability to play the piano like I once did is something I still have problems coping with though I haven't any memory of ever playing it. I went to a parochial school and although I don’t remember I was told according to my family I could play the piano in my junior year in chapel every morning which I was looking forward to but was kicked out of school when I was a sophomore. Couldn't blame them. Hard to learn during seizures and sleeping for hours or days at a time after one. So “it is what it is.” I just wish I could deal with this one issue better. I suppose I really should get rid of the piano.
Take care up in the Artic where you must live,
Jake

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@jakedduck1 . Please don't get rid of your beloved piano. It's a proud symbol to gently remind you of something very special and important that you were skilled at doing. I haven't gotten rid of all my artist paraphernalia. It's an integral part of who I am. True, it's hidden away in a closet for now because it's a bit painful to look at. I've got three huge paintings of mine hanging in my apartment though, and it makes me feel kinda' good to know that once upon a time....
Maybe if you'll tinkle a few keys and I put some paint on a brush, something magical might happen. Maybe at our joint birthday party, when you're 108 years old and I'm 145 . 🙂
Warm and fuzzy thoughts coming your way. Laurie

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@bustrbrwn22

I too have lichen planus everywhere. Does anyone have anything they use for numbing your mouth so you can enjoy normal food every once in a while?

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OMG @bustrbrwn22! It's SO good to hear from you. I thought I was the only one in the world suffering with lichen planus. I've had it since mid-December and having a terrible time finding things I can eat, or finding something to ease the pain.
I've been experimenting with applying CBD Oil (30/1 cbd.thc) directly to the lesions and I'm finding the pain is lessened and the lesion heals a bit faster. Of course, more lesions keep appearing. It's so frustrating. I've used Orajel, to numb before eating. I just researched that article about Turmeric capsules, so I've bought some today and will start that regime tomorrow. My son read about swishing the mouth with organic Sesame Oil, so I also bought that today to try. If I sound desperate, it's because I am!
Do you also have GCA like I do? These are both autoimmune diseases. Just what we needed, right?
Take care. Thinking of you.
Laurie

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@artist01
Haha, me with a paintbrush. Now that's funny.
A speech pathologist was at my house one day and he said I want you to draw a portrait of yourself. Oh yeah right sure. I said are you sure they'll have room in the Louvre maybe next to the Mona Lisa?
Well, I started on my masterpiece. He didn’t believe me when I said I couldn’t draw. But he forced my hand so I started drawing my stick figure portrait.
He wasn’t really interested in what it would look like he was interested in what it contained, mouth, nose hair, shoes, pants shirt & attempted to draw a woman's purse in his hand. He asked what the square and curved line was, I said he's a purse snatcher.
So I guess right now you know that a paintbrush in my hand would be a major disaster. Maybe I could paint a canvas solid black and just say it's midnight.
To be honest I think that would look better than some of the paintings I see hanging in art galleries. I think the way people describe paintings and wine is hilarious. I saw a guy and he was talking about wine and he said it has an earthy flavor, does that mean it tastes like dirt?
I took a calligraphy class with a friend and we had to draw the lines. The class was three hours long and at the end of the class I was still trying to draw my lines believe it or not. And then the teacher says to put our work on the board oh yeah right sure like that’s gonna happen. My friends work was beautiful but needless to say I never went back.Still to this day I can’t draw a straight line. you’re probably sick of people asking you this, I think you said that but anyway I wish I had a painting of my favorite mountain Mount Shasta in California painted by you.
Take it easy,
Jake

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@bustrbrwn22

I too have lichen planus everywhere. Does anyone have anything they use for numbing your mouth so you can enjoy normal food every once in a while?

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@bustrbrwn22
When I used to bite my tongue and cheek from so many seizures. I used Lidocaine spray.
Jake

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