Guide to Surviving Prostate Cancer by Dr. Patrick Walsh. It is becoming a little dated by now but it has LOTS of useful information. I ordered it soon after my husband was diagnosed and I’m glad I did. One thing that I really liked about it was the tone of writing. Almost as if a doctor was holding my hand during the start of the journey. Like you, I found out about it by joining this support group. Our urologist was no help. In fact, he sent us off with a free “book” put out by a huge pharmaceutical company. No bueno!