@celia16 I, too, need help occasionally; but what troubles me is the actions of so many "good kids who know better" but don't do better when in a group or crowd. My recent sighting was after church service ended and a person using a walker was standing at the double doors with one open when a group of kids quickly went through it talking and completely ignoring him trying to open the other door to exit to the outside. I stepped up and helped him but also knew that going after the kids to talk to them was not the best thing to be do at that moment...but I'll get an opportunity and will take it.